Welcome to the Emotional Balance Sheet, the go-to podcast for parents with multiple kids, especially those with twins, triplets, or more, who are navigating the maze of modern family life and personal finance.

Whether you're overwhelmed by education costs, retirement planning, career transitions, or trying to define your purpose and plan, we're here to guide you with empathy, expertise, and encouragement.

Hosted by Paul Fenner, Founder of TAMMA Capital, a Certified Financial Planner®, and parent to 4 kids, including a set of triplets, our podcast is your ally in the quest for financial peace of mind, proving that money matters, but family comes first.

We understand that today's parents are juggling multiple financial and lifestyle priorities. That's why each episode is packed with actionable insights and real-world solutions that fit the needs of busy families.

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It is a Parent's Guide to Financial and Emotional Wellbeing.

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Ep. 209 – Paul Fenner – Navigating the Impacts of the One Big Beautiful Bill During the Empty Nest and Pre-Retirement Years 
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Ep. 209 – Paul Fenner – Navigating the Impacts of the One Big Beautiful Bill During the Empty Nest and Pre-Retirement Years 

Navigate the emotional and financial transitions of empty nest and pre-retirement life with Paul Fenner on this episode of Emotional Balance Sheet. Discover expert insights on relationship dynamics, divorce trends, tax planning, new deductions, Roth conversions, maximizing after-tax returns, and the real impact of recent tax law changes as you prepare for retirement. Whether you're building a healthcare bridge, deciding when to claim Social Security, or planning your next move, this episode delivers actionable strategies for families facing one of the most underrated—and pivotal—stages of life. Tune in to empower your next chapter with confidence and clarity.

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Ep. 208 – Paul Fenner – Understanding the One Big Beautiful Bill Impacts for Parents During Their Building Years 
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Ep. 208 – Paul Fenner – Understanding the One Big Beautiful Bill Impacts for Parents During Their Building Years 

Navigate the challenges of the “building years” as Paul Fenner dives into the financial and emotional realities of parenting teens, planning for college, and managing retirement savings in this episode of Emotional Balance Sheet. Discover key takeaways from the “Big Beautiful Bill,” including updated tax deductions, retirement catch-up contributions, SALT changes, and smart strategies for balancing personal and financial priorities. Perfect for parents and families seeking practical advice on tax planning, wealth management, and making the most of life’s busy seasons. Listen now for actionable insights and expert tips to keep your emotional and financial balance in check.

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Ep. 207 – Paul Fenner – Wins and Losses for New & Growing Families and Parents from the One Big Beautiful Bill
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Ep. 207 – Paul Fenner – Wins and Losses for New & Growing Families and Parents from the One Big Beautiful Bill

Navigate the complexities of family financial planning with Paul Fenner in this episode of the Emotional Balance Sheet podcast. Explore the latest updates from the “one big beautiful bill,” including changes to tax deductions, child tax credits, dependent care FSAs, Trump accounts, and state-specific planning tips for parents in their career and family growth stage. Packed with practical advice for maximizing savings and minimizing tax liability, this episode is essential listening for busy families seeking financial harmony. Listen in for actionable strategies and expert insights on building a secure financial future for you and your loved ones.

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Ep. 206 – Paul Fenner – What Parents and Young Adults Should Know About the New One Big Beautiful Bill 
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Ep. 206 – Paul Fenner – What Parents and Young Adults Should Know About the New One Big Beautiful Bill 

Unlock the essential insights from the latest "Emotional Balance Sheet" episode as Paul Fenner breaks down the impact of the “Big Beautiful Bill” on young adults, students, and parents. Discover how the new bill affects marginal tax rates, deductions for tips, overtime, and vehicle interest, plus changes to student loan rules and home energy credits. Whether you're just getting started with your finances or guiding your kids, this episode offers practical tips, pros and cons, and actionable planning strategies to make the most of current tax law changes. Listen now for expert analysis and real-life financial advice tailored for every stage of life!

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Ep.205 – Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – Finding Satisfaction Beyond Winning: Enjoying the Journey in Life, Sports, and Finances 
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Ep.205 – Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – Finding Satisfaction Beyond Winning: Enjoying the Journey in Life, Sports, and Finances 

Paul Fenner and guest Dr. Jennifer Dragonette dive into why achieving major goals—like a big promotion or retirement—rarely brings long-term happiness. Drawing from real-life examples and expert insights, they explore how to shift from a goal-oriented mindset to one rooted in values, growth, and daily “pride practices.” Perfect for anyone seeking emotional well-being, greater satisfaction, and healthier motivation in both life and finances.

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Ep. 204 – Paul Fenner – How to Spot and Avoid IRS Tax Scams 
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Ep. 204 – Paul Fenner – How to Spot and Avoid IRS Tax Scams 

Protect yourself from tax scams in 2025! In this episode of Emotional Balance Sheet, Paul Fenner breaks down the latest IRS scam statistics, reveals how the IRS really contacts taxpayers, and shares actionable tips to avoid falling victim to phishing, smishing, and other financial scams. Discover the warning signs, learn what to do if you get a suspicious IRS notification, and stay up to date with the latest "Dirty Dozen" tax scams. Don’t miss these essential insights for safeguarding your finances this tax season!

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Ep.203 – Paul Fenner – Time is the Ultimate Planning Killer 
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Ep.203 – Paul Fenner – Time is the Ultimate Planning Killer 

Struggling to kickstart your financial planning? In this episode of the Emotional Balance Sheet podcast, host Paul Fenner shares real-life stories of busy parents facing the biggest financial planning killer—time. Discover why waiting can increase stress, how emotional triggers can spark action, and practical tips for setting purposeful financial and life goals, even in the busiest seasons. Don’t let another six months pass you by—learn how to anchor your goals today and avoid regret tomorrow. Perfect for parents and anyone feeling overwhelmed by their to-do list!

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Ep. 202 – Paul Fenner – Just Wait: Fuel for Financial and Emotional Anxiety 
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Ep. 202 – Paul Fenner – Just Wait: Fuel for Financial and Emotional Anxiety 

Discover why “just waiting” can hold you back—both financially and personally—in this thought-provoking episode of the Emotional Balance Sheet podcast with Paul Fenner. Explore how common worries about recessions, tariffs, and family milestones can lead to unnecessary anxiety, and learn why taking action may be the key to a more fulfilling life. Tune in for practical insights on overcoming fear, managing uncertainty, and embracing the present, rather than waiting for the next big thing. Perfect for anyone looking to achieve greater financial and emotional wellness.

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Ep. 201 – Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – How Different Communication Styles Impact Marriage, Money, and Emotional Wellbeing 
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Ep. 201 – Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – How Different Communication Styles Impact Marriage, Money, and Emotional Wellbeing 

Explore the Emotional Balance Sheet podcast as host Paul Fenner and therapist Dr. Jennifer Dragonette dive into the challenges of communication styles in relationships. Discover practical strategies for navigating internal vs. external processing, reducing conflict, and strengthening your connection with your partner, kids, and even your finances. Tune in to this insightful episode for expert advice on understanding introversion, extroversion, and the power of open, validating conversations in both personal and financial well-being. Perfect for couples, families, and anyone seeking healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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Ep. 200 – Paul Fenner – Finding Harmony in Life, Work, and Family: Reflections on 200 Episodes 
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Ep. 200 – Paul Fenner – Finding Harmony in Life, Work, and Family: Reflections on 200 Episodes 

Discover the key to finding harmony between your career, finances, and personal life in Episode 83 of the Emotional Balance Sheet podcast. Financial advisor Paul Fenner reflects on work-life challenges, retirement planning, and the importance of taking action—not just gaining awareness—when it comes to life’s biggest transitions. Celebrating 200 episodes, Paul shares real-life stories and practical insights for anyone seeking purpose, fulfillment, and balance beyond the numbers. Tune in for expert advice, emotional support, and candid conversations to help you build a life you love.

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Ep. 199 – Paul Fenner – Time Wealth Versus Time Debt: Lessons from Parenting and Planning
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Ep. 199 – Paul Fenner – Time Wealth Versus Time Debt: Lessons from Parenting and Planning

Discover the real cost of "time debt" and how it impacts your work-life balance in this episode of Emotional Balance Sheet with host Paul Fenner. Drawing from personal experiences and insights from experts like Greg McKeown and Ann Laure Lecomte, Paul explores the concept of time anxiety - including current, future, and existential worries. Learn practical tips to define what "time well spent" means for you, reduce stress, and make intentional choices that prioritize family and happiness. Tune in for relatable stories, actionable advice, and a fresh perspective on managing your most precious resource: time.

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Ep. 198 – Marisa Lonic – Inside the Family Office: A Family's Journey Working with a Financial Advisor
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Ep. 198 – Marisa Lonic – Inside the Family Office: A Family's Journey Working with a Financial Advisor

Explore the realities of working with a financial advisor in this candid episode of the Emotional Balance Sheet podcast. Host Paul Fenner welcomes back Marisa Lonic to discuss her family's firsthand experience navigating financial planning, life transitions, and the emotional aspects of money management. Discover what to expect during the advisor onboarding process, the importance of vulnerability in both finances and parenting, and how professional coaching and trusted advice can transform your family's future. Perfect for busy parents, couples considering a financial advisor, or anyone seeking insightful tips on balancing careers, family, and personal growth. Listen now for actionable advice and real stories from those who've been through it.

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Ep. 197 – Paul Fenner – Focusing on What Never Changes 
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Ep. 197 – Paul Fenner – Focusing on What Never Changes 

Explore the timeless principles of personal finance and emotional well-being in this episode of the Emotional Balance Sheet podcast. Host Paul Fenner shares key takeaways from Morgan Housel’s wisdom, diving into topics like human nature, the power of compounding, managing expectations, handling unexpected risks, and embracing duality in life and investing. Discover practical insights on building lasting wealth, finding happiness, and focusing on what truly never changes—both in your financial journey and personal growth. Perfect for anyone seeking steady guidance in a changing world.

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Ep. 196- Paul Fenner - How Parenting Challenges Shape Real-World Financial Advice
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Ep. 196- Paul Fenner - How Parenting Challenges Shape Real-World Financial Advice

Discover how real-life parenting challenges shape practical financial advice. Host Paul Fenner shares personal stories about fatherhood, empathy, and building deeper connections with families to help them achieve their financial goals. Learn why understanding emotions and setting realistic expectations are essential for effective financial planning, from saving for college to retirement.

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Ep. 195 – Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – Spending vs Saving: Tools for Couples to Align Money Values and Find Harmony 
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Ep. 195 – Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – Spending vs Saving: Tools for Couples to Align Money Values and Find Harmony 

Explore common financial conflicts, how childhood experiences shape money attitudes, and proven ways to find alignment on values and financial goals. Discover actionable tips for holding calm money conversations, setting financial “date nights,” and breaking free from the saver vs. spender cycle. Perfect for couples looking to strengthen their financial partnership while maintaining emotional connection.

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Ep. 194 - Paul Fenner - Tariffs, Taxes & Tumult: What Investors Need to Know This Summer 
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Ep. 194 - Paul Fenner - Tariffs, Taxes & Tumult: What Investors Need to Know This Summer 

What investors need to know about new tax legislation—the so-called "big beautiful bill"—and ongoing tariff debates. Discover how these policy changes could impact your portfolio, why media hype often outweighs real risk, and practical tips for aligning your investments with your long-term goals. Stay informed and confident through the tumult of tariffs and taxes—listen in now for calm, actionable insights!

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Ep. 193 – Rob Moore – Everything You Wanted to Know About Investing in Farmland but Were Afraid to Ask 
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Ep. 193 – Rob Moore – Everything You Wanted to Know About Investing in Farmland but Were Afraid to Ask 

Discover why farmland is a unique, low-risk, and inflation-hedged asset class ideal for portfolio diversification. Learn how platforms like AcreTrader make it easy to invest in productive U.S. farmland, what to consider before investing, and the differences between owning farmland, real estate, and traditional stocks or bonds. Listen now for expert insights, tips, and firsthand experiences in agricultural investing.

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Ep. 192 – Paul Fenner – Aligning Assets and Liabilities: The Role of Temporal Diversification 
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Ep. 192 – Paul Fenner – Aligning Assets and Liabilities: The Role of Temporal Diversification 

Explore the intriguing concept of temporal diversification in the latest episode of the "Emotional Balance Sheet" podcast. Host Paul Fenner delves into how aligning assets with liabilities can mitigate the emotional impact of market fluctuations. Learn about the probability of positive returns across various timeframes, from monthly to 20-year periods, and discover strategies for long-term financial planning, whether it's for retirement, college savings, or buying a home. Tune in to understand how matching liabilities with diversified investments can lead to a more predictable financial future. Don't miss this insightful discussion on achieving financial stability amidst market uncertainties.

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