Breaking the Habit of "Make Sure-ing": How Letting Go Builds Trust and Confidence

Have you ever caught yourself constantly reminding a partner, a coworker, or your child to do something—just to “make sure” it gets done? You’re not alone. Dr. Jennifer Dragonette calls this make sure-ing, a well-intended habit that can unintentionally undermine trust and self-reliance. Whether in parenting, relationships, or the workplace, over-managing others can create stress and dependency. This article explores how recognizing and breaking free from make sure-ing can lead to stronger, more balanced relationships and greater peace of mind.